The following is part 7 of my 8 part series on entrepreneurs and their attempts at work-life balance.

No matter what, work lives and personal lives will collide.
I use the word “collide” because it’s rarely a simple intersection. I imagine two tangles of Christmas lights – already separate messes on their own – coming together and creating a big bright ball of complication. Only with time and persistence will anyone turn that ball into a beautiful decoration.

Look at the entrepreneurs: Jeremy Wright does his work from his bedroom. Steve Pavlina’s son took his first steps when he was “at work”. The Burke’s manage their business from their sailboat. Angie has to live in a nerdy world filled with video games and blogs.

These individuals have learned how to make sure the collision functions like a Venn diagram. On the outside we have the elements of work and life that must remain separate. For example, Jeremy might have to kick his family out of the house (to go to the park) for a day so he can focus. In the middle there will be the elements of life that just seem to work together in harmony. For the Burke’s, their business is on their boat. If business is going well, Jeremy will invite his family to travel with him on a business trip.

Focus on what you’re passionate about or your odds of failure increase.
As mentioned in the introduction, Chris Pearson was an entrepreneur selling products on eBay. But, he noted he had no passion for it. Chris’ business soon failed. Many people will settle for money. They often say they’re “happy” but in reality they’re “content” (Pavlina, 2006). You won’t live your life to its full potential if you’re not living passionately. Anyone can tell you the results of doing anything without passion are typically dismal. If I weren’t as interested in this paper as I am then I wouldn’t have put in the same amount of time researching and writing as I have.

Decide what you’re doing or else outside forces will decide for you.
Although I’ve had numerous conversations with Shivani I just now started to possibly understand why she hasn’t achieved balance. I think that the issue is the dichotomy in her professional life. On one hand, she loves her accounting job and the people she works with. On the other, she invests a lot of time and energy into being an entrepreneur and enjoys the numerous “options.” I submit that work-life balance is unattainable when one side is already out of balance. Angie may not have this problem because she says she’s “living the entrepreneurial lifestyle” regardless of her day-job.

On the other side, Jeremy has been very successful because he doesn’t let anyone else dictate his work nor his enjoyment. Obviously, the same can be said about the rest of the balanced entrepreneurs. In Jeremy’s case, he permits himself a break by scheduling a “fun” task after five “work” tasks. I can tell you that I’ve never worked in an environment where I was allowed to play Xbox after five hours of work. In fact, the more I worked and the better I did, the more that was expected of me. Jeremy says he lives with a lot less stress partly due to this concept. He’s no longer performing for someone else which means he no longer experiences that pressure to execute. He is the sole force dictating what he can do with his life. Obviously Steve practices what he preaches and has been demonstrating this for many years.

Series: Background, Steve Pavlina, Jeremy Wright, Rory and Sandra Burke, Angie Chang, Shivani Sopory, Conclusions, Final Thoughts
[tags]entrepreneurship, work, life, balance, passion[/tags]